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What to expect at our parties ?

We try to make everyone that comes to our parties feel at home and as comfy as possible. The main thing is just to be yourself. Relax and introduce yourself to other swingers at the party. Remember they are there for the same thing you are. So you can feel at ease. You can come along and its just like an everyday house party, there is never any pressure or to play.

Everyone that comes along is expected to treat everyone at the party with respect.

 

We do supply fridges to keep your drinks cold. There is ice in the fridge

Wine glasses are usually found hanging from the bar.

We have a pool table which is totally free.

 

We do not sell any liquor or mixers so please make sure you bring enough for your self.

We do supply cold fridge water

 

Handtowels tissue's and towels are provided in all area's.

There is a sex swing in one of the open area's

We do play the most popular music that most people tend to like. Rock & Roll and popular party music.

We do have a few laser lights just to set the mood a little. We also have some nice smelling candles burning to also set the mood.

 

Different Venues have different features and play area's.

 

Please contact the party organiser for more info.

RULES OF THE PARTY

 

  1. NO MEANS NO

  2. No drugs or Drunks

  3. Don't touch without asking

  4. If a door is closed don't open it or knock on it

  5. Please bring your own condoms and lube if required

  6. You must treat everyone with respect

  7. No naked bodies outside - varies depends on venue

  8. No abusive behaviour

  9. Please put condoms in the bins provided

  10. Please bring your own mixers as they are not provided

  11. No glass around the Spa's or pools

  12. If a glass is broken please clean it up.

  13. All of our parties are condom friendly

  14. No Jealousy at the parties ( Make sure you have discussed your boundaries with your Partner ! )

  15. " NO MEANS NO "

Swinging in the Lifestyle

 

The Swingers world

Swinging is most commonly referred to a swinging lifestyle. It is a non-monogamous sexual activity practiced by couples. Those who follow this type of sexual activity are called as swingers. Swinging has come about as a result of the sexual revolution that took place in the recent decades. The sexual revolution was a result of changed social thought and behavior pertaining to sexuality across the Western world. Today it has grown and spread around the world. Sexual revolution began in the 1960s and 1970s due to the pervasiveness of safer sex practices. Swinging has also been known as wife swapping. But this term was criticized as a very male oriented viewpoint. It does not describe the swinging practice entirely.  

Swingers can be couples or singles seeking other couples and singles to literally share themselves and their spouses with them. This activity is performed with no barriers and involves extreme sexual activity. Swinging involves both partners into the act. Wife swapping however leads one to believe that only the wife exchanges places. The swingers have no age limits and one can find people of all ages involved in it. From older couples to married couples to teenagers everybody can practice this activity. In fact one of the conditions to be accepted into such an activity is that you have to be a happily married couple. The reason behind such a condition is that one must not dwell into this activity in order to escape an unhappy marriage or relationship. It is done with the consent of the couple.  

Many are horrified at this type of sexual practice but to a swinger it just another social event. Many would not even dream of letting their spouse get involved with another individual or let them have casual sex, it will be looked upon as cheating. The swingersare however blind to such beliefs and carry on without a second thought. There are many types of sexual activities practiced by the swingers. They are wild and strange just like the swingers. The following are a few types of swinging activities.  

Soft swinging:

Soft swinging includes all sexual activities other than sexual intercourse. In this type of practice the swingers stop at the last moment and switch to their original partners. Through this practice the first time swingers get introduced the world of swinging.  Open swinging  This type of swinging activity involves having sexual intercourse with the other partner. This is also called as full swap. The swapped couples have sex on the same place or even on the same bed. This type of sexual activity can include more than three individuals at a time.  

Closed swinging

In this swinging activity the swapped couples have sexual intercourse but not in the same room. In this practice the swapped couples take to separate bedrooms.  Swinging however has not remained true to its original principal. Couples and individuals follow this activity without any rules and they might even split after this practice. The main reason behind this activity is the achievement of sexual fantasy without really cheating on your other half. 

How to start Swinging?

Many couple are ready for swinging but don’t know how to get started with it. In such cases, you can contact with swinging clubs near to your city who will further guide you. Party houses are great places where you can start off your swinging lifestyle. This way you can interact with other swingers who will be participating in these parties and events. It may be difficult for the first timers to get admission into these events. One thing that you should keep in mind is that membership to these clubs will be difficult and very expensive.

 Online advertisement

 Couples can get the help of the internet to start swinging. You should place an ad on internet inviting other interested swingers. A lot of websites are offering placements for personal ads for a small membership fees. These sites will help you to reach to swingers who may be experienced or first timers. Posting ads may be a slow process and you should do a lot of writing and communication before you know whether they are the right couple who are compatible with you. Online ads will help you to meet some very interesting swinging couples.

 Dealing with Jealousy while swinging

 Jealousy is an emotion which is felt by the humans when they think that they are not as good as some others. It is the worst emotion as it is always suppressed within your mind and paves a way of destruction for you and the adversary both. Also jealousy can be very, very damaging for any relationship. It prevents you from relieving your stress and also checking you emotional growth. Although the basic meaning is the same, it is not the same as envy. Envy is an emotion which forces you to feel that no one else should have a specific thing if you don’t have it. But jealousy is an emotion which will stall your emotional growth. If a person is jealous, the person already has what he desires, but fears he may lose it. The worst part of jealousy is the romantic jealousy. It is defined as a complex mixture of feelings, thoughts and actions which pressurize the self-esteem and also pressurize the quality and even the survival of the relationship.These pressures are the result of a potential or realistic attraction between a person’s partner and the rival.

THE BEST WAY WE HAVE FOUND, IS TO DO THE FOLLOWING IF YOU WANT TO SUCCEED IN THIS LIFESTYLE -

Once you have spoken to your partner about how far you are both wiling to go in a sexual playing scenario.

Then plan to meet a couple you both think you will be happy to play with. ( Word of advise here an experienced couple will not try and sneakily meet up with your partner behind your back )

 

 

OUR PERSONAL ADVISE - ( Might not work for everybody ! )

Agree to have sex with your current partner after playing with another couple as soon after as you can.

Agree to not get Jealous or have any issue's during playing and just enjoy yourself as much as you can. Yes you will be looking at your partner from time to time to see how much fun they are having. Remember you are both meant to be having fun at this point.

Don't mention anything you were not happy about untill after you have had sex with your Main partner and talk about all the things that you liked about the sexual scenario you have just had with the other couple. This way you will take away positives about playing with others and after you should have very exiting sex with your main partner. Eg: While your making love with your main partner after playing with the other couple say things like - You enjoyed him licking your pussy didn't you !!  You have to say the truth at this point and say yes it was great. Because you both have to be free with the idea of your partner enjoying themselves sexually with someone else too. Once you have had sex and talked about all the good things then.

If there was something you did not feel comfortable with in the sexual scenario make sure you both talk about it in a calm positive way. Or this lifestyle will never work for you.

We hope some of this advise helps you enjoy this lifestyle as much as you can.

 

 

 

Finding a single female ( Or the Unicorn ) 

This is something you would be better off asking us personally....... 

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If you are a single female wanting to get involved in this very safe, fun and sexy lifestyle. Please contact us directly so we can guide you throughall the do's and don'ts. Look forward to hearing from you. 0450 711 703 ( Text First please )

 

 

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